As Carlos, a newcomer to dance, states, "Every man has hesitation at the thought of approaching a pretty woman. What goes on in our minds is how lame is this going to sound?
Dance is the great equalizer. A lot of us men feel that we have certain aspects of ourselves that make us less competitive in the "sweepstakes" to attract women. Dance won't make me 6 foot 4 if I'm not already tall, dark and hansome, but if I can dance...well none of the rest of it matters."
I'd like to hear from Men & Women on this subject for My new book:
"Women Who Love To Dance."
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Being single has opened me up to this world of dancing, which serves as an opportunity to understand the man's character through his dance leads. The way a man leads me through a dance gives me a glimpse of his soul. It's the supreme way to get to know a man, how he treats me, how he solicits my dance moves, how he escorts me off the floor. I use dancing as my filter to screen out true gentlemen. Dancing should be a pre-requisite in high school as a social tool, I regret I didn't learn dancing sooner. It is my silent secret, even when I dance with someone I am not attracted to, if he can dance with definitive leads and protect me from the mishaps on the dance floor, I have fed my soul temporarily and I am slightly attracted to him in a way that never would have been captured off the dance floor.
ReplyDeleteFaster dances, younger women, older whiskey, more money...
ReplyDeleteIsn't that what it's all about?
I'm setting a bookmark to this blog so I can come back often and see what's going on.
Oh yeah, and I can't wait to read the book.
I've heard it said that dance is a vertical expression of a horizontal thought. While some might find that definition a bit crude, consider that a dance can, at it's best, be a 3 minute romantic interlude or at it's worst, be a brief test of patience and skill, your's and his! I agree that a woman who dance wants to be with a man who can lead. He can take her to a place that transcends time, space and circumstance. He can put a smile on her face like no other. The leader as the initiator and the follower as the responder, have the potential to have the perfect symbiotic encounter. That's why we dance! :-)
ReplyDeleteHuman touch, for babies, children, adults, and seniors is most important and help you live longer!
ReplyDeleteI think you're supposed to get / give eight hugs per day.
Partner dancing certainly would fulfill this!
If single male golfers view Carrie Lucas' video, there will be a mass exodus from their golf courses to her studio. Her video captures the very essence of sensuality. The dance floor allows open access to the bedroom itself, exuding sensuous exchanges of flirting, emotionality, femininity. You can dance to express, expose your soul for your eyes only. For you IT techs out there, no more web browsing, come watch Carrier, it screams "soul" browsing.
ReplyDeleteI've been a fan of Carrie Lucas since the early 90's when I was living in Arizona and attending seminars and workshops in SoCal. Living in Orange County now, naturally I was excited to learn that she was teaching women's styling classes in my area very close to home. She is classy, and her classes are fun, challenging and a real total body workout ! ~DebraZ
ReplyDeleteI can tell a lot from the way a man will lead me on the dance floor - he is there to lead and protect me. Beyond that, there is an opportunity of friendships that can last for years. Dancing allows us adults to go out and play in a safe environment, not to mention keeping our bodies in shape. Exercise is a four letter word to many, dance is another word for fun! Gail in Las Vegas!
ReplyDeleteDancing is so expressive! Perhaps some people who have trouble with words, will have better luck expressing themselves through dance!
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